Is Sex Better With Lubricant?

Understanding Women's Preferences for Lubrication During Intercourse.

How Wet Do Women Prefer It?

Have you ever wondered how much lubrication women prefer during intercourse? Understanding women's preferences for lubrication can enhance intimacy and comfort during sexual activities.

The Variables Affecting Lubrication Preferences

The amount of lubrication a woman considers normal can vary widely based on several factors:

• Post-Menopausal Status: Hormonal changes affect natural lubrication.
• Cultural Beliefs: Cultural backgrounds can influence perceptions.
• Personal Preference: Individual comfort levels and experiences.
• Type of Penetration: Different objects (finger, toy, penis) can require varying amounts of lubrication.

Survey Insights: Women's Thoughts on Lubricant Use

A survey of over 2,000 women revealed the following:

• 94-97% believed that lubrication made sex more comfortable, enjoyable, and pleasurable.
• 25% felt lubricants made sex too sticky.
• 6% thought using lubrication meant something was wrong with them sexually.
• 8% believed young women didn’t need lubrication.

Desired Wetness Levels

• 56% of women wanted sex to feel somewhat wet.
• 40% preferred it very wet.
• 87.5% felt more easily orgasmic when sex was wet.

Types of Lubricants

1. Water-Based Lubricants:

   • Pros: Less slippery, dries quickly, affordable, fewer ingredients (good for sensitive skin).
   • Cons: May require frequent reapplication.

2. Silicone-Based Lubricants:

   • Pros: Very slippery, long-lasting, ideal for intercourse.
   • Cons: Should not be used with silicone sex toys.

3. Oil-Based Lubricants:

   • Pros: Long-lasting.
   • Cons: Can stain sheets, not compatible with condoms (risk of breakage).

Age and Lubricant Use

• Women aged 40-49 had the most positive attitudes towards lubricant use.
• Women aged 18-29 were less likely to view lubricant use as positive, possibly due to easier natural lubrication.
• Other age groups (30-39 and 50+) found lubricant use to be normal and beneficial.

Embracing Lubrication for Enhanced Pleasure

It's important to try different types of lubricants to find what works best for you. Lubrication can significantly enhance sexual pleasure and comfort, regardless of age or natural lubrication levels. There’s no shame in using it—embrace it for a better sexual experience.